Because it eases their fear and gives them the illusion of control over the situation (But that’s all it is: an illusion).
Vibes in the real world are dynamic. They are always changing.
If all you’ve got going for you is your pickup line… then it’s only gonna initiate vibing if it happens to sync up with the woman’s vibe.
Let me share a quick story with you that relates to this…
Several months back I was out at a club with a buddy of mine. He sports rock star good looks. On most nights, he does quite well with women.
But not on this night. We all have our flubups.
He took a tragic crack at approaching a group of female bodies flaying around to the music with a canned opener.
Inevitably, the girls ignored him. Instead of adjusting his game, he just kept trying to get his line out. But the girls kept pretending he didn’t exist. They culled him from their reality.
He got more and more frustrated.
Did they have A.D.D.? Did they find him ugly as sin? Anything is possible.
But I’d put my money on it, these things weren’t the culprits.
His canned line didn’t sync up with the girl’s vibe.
Does this mean that canned lines won’t work on every girl in every situation?
Not necessarily. Let me share another story with you…
I was out a few nights ago with a buddy of mine. We came up with some wacky pickup line to try on women (I’ve been doing this long enough where I don’t need a pickup line for approaching a woman. But now and then, I use them because they’re a lot of fun).
My buddy has got a good four inches on me. Plus, he’s got me beat in the “conventional” good looks department.
Through the course of the night we each used this wacky line five or six times. The exact same words flew out of our traps.
Yet we reaped a completely different reaction.
Every time he used the line, the girls either walked away or got angry and picked a fight with him.
On the other hand, every time I used the line, the girls were laughing, giggling, and putting their horny little paws all over me.
Hmm. What’s going on here? How could a memorized line work six times in a row for me and not for my friend?
When it comes to the initiating sexual vibes the words coming out of your mouth are irrelevant.
It wasn’t the pickup line or my minty fresh breath that was getting the great reactions from the girls.
It was something else… something far more power… I was using a set of behavioral patterns I stumbled onto that all ladies men use.
I call The 7 Fundamentals To Approaching and Vibing With Women.
These are 7 patterns of behavior and communication that allow you to tune into and sync up with a woman’s vibe and give power to change the vibe thread to something that leads the interaction in the direction of your intended outcome with her.
Once You Master These Seven Fundamentals, You’ll Possess The Power To Initiate A Sexual Vibe With 99% Of Women.
Just imagine how many opportunities with women you’ll have once you master the 7 Fundamentals.